Appearance is IMPORTANT

Why would i say this? Let me give u 2 conditions.

Situation A : a type of branded perfume that was inserted into a normal looking perfume bottle, without any decoration.

Situation B : toilet water that were inserted into elegant looking perfume bottle, provided with present box.

What is ur 1st impression? Ignorance ppl like us 100% will think that the B perfume will smell better than A. Without even testing. I'm saying about 1st impression, not after u test and anything.

Conclusion : How u packet urself plays a major role in other ppl's eye regardless of how kind hearted u are or how shitty ur attitude is.

Even ur best friends or ur loved ones(couples especially), they would say they dun mind how u looks, as long as u're tolerate, kind-hearted, considerate .........(all the positive attitudes). Of course i'm not saying that fairy tales like beauty and the beast will not happen in reality, but i think that would be one in a million. I mean even we have known each other for so long, appearance will be something in between us, like, "oh stop being so fat already! I wouldnt want to stand beside a fat-ass or hold their hands!!" PLS DUN BE SHOCK AS THERE ARE THIS KIND OF PPL.

Of course we would appreciate if u translate into a better way, "erm, pardon me i didnt mean anything, you look good in this way, but you would look better if u try to lose a little bit of weight =)" isnt this much more comfortable? Instead of saying, that pictures of urs very ugly la, and i see other ppl very pretty leh, nice body and know how to make up. Let me tell u how it feels, is like already u know urself ugly, one wound on ur heart, still they wan add salt or chili peppers or simply stab on ur wound again. And it is extra hurt if this words come from the ppl u loved/trusted.

So again conclusion:
For those ppl who perasan they're ugly(like me, actually i dun feel like i'm that worst) improve on ur looks, at least take care of ur appearance.
For those ppl who say other ppl who are fat, ugly, ..... take a mirror and look at urself =) and if u do look good, u're just like situation B i mentioned just now.